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What is this?


I'm Emily (EmmyLu). I run a death care company, I swear too much in print, and I write about the messy, honest process of unlearning every "should" I've been carrying.

Dating after divorce. Building a company with ADHD. Shooting shots I have no business shooting. Figuring out which scripts are mine and which ones belong to everyone else.

If my selfishness improves your journey, by all means, follow along.


What you'll read about?